You’re Not Doing it Wrong
“Overexcited” by Cory Feder
Plus, a new Monthly Special! $50 sessions for the theme of the month. July is Phone Addiction and August is Politics *gulp*
The most amazing thing I’ve learned in the past 10 years of being a minister/psychic/healer is that nobody’s doing it wrong.
What’s the ‘it?” Well, life and everything in it, of course. Now this idea has come slowly and taken a long time for me to really believe. I can look around even today and be nearly certain that at least some if not most of these people are doing it wrong.
Look at the war they started; how many lives lost and cities destroyed. Or look at all those drugs they’re smoking and the families torn apart. Or jeez, how can they eat that, don’t they see it’s killing them or making them unhappy or sick?
Or what about that guy bending politics to his egoic will, or that woman claiming liberation in what is so obviously oppressive toxic masculinity? And how about all those people who don’t vote, or don’t protest, or don’t make signs to hang in windows? Or even just that guy who doesn’t pick up the dog poop or - even worse - bags it up but then leaves that bag on the side of the hiking trail, encapsulated in plastic for all future generations to encounter.
I mean, it’s kind of obvious they’re doing it wrong, amirite?
I’m sure you’ve got your own list of people ‘doing it wrong’ but slowly I’ve come to see the dark side of that list.
Eventually that one finger pointing out can no longer hide the three fingers pointing in. There’s a lot I could say about the industry that’s sprung up around ‘You’re doing it wrong’ mentality (cancel culture, self-help books, political siloing, most of the content on social media, etc) but that’s not the important thing.
What matters to me is how it shows up in my clients, this doing-it-wrong energy which becomes self-blame, self-limitation, and terrible low self-esteem.
Most of my clients, in one way or another, are working with me because they have either a conscious or (much more often) unconscious belief that they’re doing something wrong in their life and need to FIX IT.
I’ve learned to look for it in every reading, kind of like going to a spiritual doctor who checks the aura, clears the chakras, scans for self-blame, and adds the grounding cord.
Feel like you’re doing it wrong? It might not be your story! Let’s check it out in a Clairvoyant Counseling session.
We’re in a culture right now that basically implants self-blame right along with self-determination and Manifest Destiny in every newborn babe.
But it’s not always obvious to us. This self-blame energy might look like a lot of shoulds - I should have a better job/relationship/health/home - or efforting - I’ll work harder on myself/others/spirituality then I’ll be ok - or simply resignation - I’ll never be good enough, I’m a loser.
But I see that self-blame in every single person as foreign energy; it’s not their story! And when we identify and move it out of your space, the machinery starts working beautifully.
Getting rid of the ‘You’re Doing it Wrong’ energy always illuminates my clients.
Their meridians fill with the rainbow light of enjoyment. Their chakras spin more peacefully. Their crown glows with spiritual wisdom and suddenly we can see that the thing they thought they were doing wrong is actually their soul’s deepest delight.
So, you’re not doing it wrong, not at all. You’re actually doing what is exactly right for you right now at this point in your soul’s journey. Even if that involves great suffering and struggle, there is beauty in there that makes you part of the great handsewn quilt of humanity.
This week, as you’re going about your business, I invite to stay conscious of that self-blame energy. Look at see if it’s yours or maybe someone else’s. And if you’re having any trouble at all, you know what to do. Book with me and let’s clean it right on up.
In Spirit and Service,
Rev. Cindy
Ready to clear the “I’m Doing it Wrong'“ blocks and run the energy of your soul’s delight? Let’s get to it in a Clairvoyant Counseling session.
MONTHLY SPECIAL - July is “Phone Addiction”
My teachers say when I give a healing I get a healing. And boy do I need some healing on phone addiction! We all like to joke we’re ‘addicted’ to our phones but I’m feeling kind of like I did before I got sober.
If you’re also struggling with phone addiction this month and want to work on this with me, book my new Monthly Special service for the (truly) ridiculously good price of $50 for 30 mins.
And if you’ve felt lit up by politics lately (geez who hasn’t?!) then lets take a look at what’s activated within you so we can clear it and get you back in the game with power, clarity, and neutrality and really do some good political work.
Here are the upcoming themes
July - Phone Addiction
August - Politics
September - People Pleasing
October - Sleep Trouble
WORKSHOP SATURDAY JULY 27th - Healing Through Prayer and Praying in Pictures
Join us for this practical hands on one-hour workshop followed by a shamanic healing clinic. In the workshop we’ll focus on how to use prayer to create a spiritual picture of health for your healee.
Spirit speaks in the language of pictures and though us humans need words to communicate, we can use those words to paint a picture of healing. This could include:
Describing a healthy flow of energy through diseased tissue
Calling in blessings of particular kinds of light
Opening pathways and removing obstacles for right work or a new career
Claiming emotional power and spiritual support for your healee
Releasing wounds and emotional scar tissue from the energy body’s matrix
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Artwork? Top image is “Overexcited” by Cory Feder. Second image is unknown. Third image is by Moebius.
